Family implosion… The conclusion

When your family blows up for no fault to your own, what you do as a parent? When the problems and concerns becomes so chronic that people begin to fight… Then part ways… It becomes critical mass.

That’s when restoration and the process of recognizing what’s happening is critical. Forgiveness is critical. Process is critical. Time becomes critical.

My experiences that when you know what the concerns are and what peoples outcomes are… Then the process becomes focused and simplified. What are your concerns? What are your desired outcomes?

The long road back from betrayal with a family requires vulnerability, restoration, a new bond of peace in the form of some verbal or written agreement and much more!

We’re finding that this process is much grieving and related to grief. The steps of grief are anger, depression, negotiation, and acceptance. Family divisiveness is a giant ass grieving process!

The road back needs to be full of good communication and sensitivity. Road back requires patience and not having to win. it requires being graceful and full of kindness, wanting to win the war and not just the battle!

Road back needs open communication and real candor. This needs to be couched in the space of wanting to preserve long-term relationships.

Giant ass hurtful things will change those relationships going forward… But we are family and family remains super important. My Prayer is that you can restore your family. And do your part to be part of that process going forward!💯🥇